Today to consult a sugar baby, and her boyfriend get in trouble. Girls parents are not good at expressing emotions, has always been used to express the tone of criticism of concern, so the relationship between girls in the boyfriends is also very difficult to express intimacy and love. This makes the sugar daddy feel troubled, and the girl had a lot of mistrust. The two sub-sub-combined many times, but the bottom of my heart is like each other, so after another round of emotional wear, the girl finally decided to resort to me, hoping to break the cycle.
Forget the perfect
When you see the "perfect feeling" what kind of picture in your mind? Sweet, happy, true love, understanding respect, But every day with these imagination, your feelings but will not ring true, because you will always complain and disappointment. Why is this so? The perfect feeling is not just a state, is also a process. Like a movie is good or bad, can not be used to determine a frame of the same picture. Limited time and yet to be perfect mind, we are in the feelings and the road of life must accept the reality. This also means that: perfect feeling, many times must start is not perfect.
How perfect?
I just think, when two people are aware of their need to grow and improve, the problem between the two is derived from their immature, but also willing to love each other, care about each other and accompany her to accompany the growth, A perfect feeling began. Perfect feelings, not always keep the idol drama as harmonious and happy picture. Sometimes too want to maintain such a picture, we need to make up a lot of lies. The perfect feeling in my eyes is to spend one day, one month, and one year in each and your loved one. No matter what you have gone through, you look back on the past and you feel better than ever. Your relationship has changed better.
How to get the perfect feeling?
First of all, I think not every partner can work with you to achieve the perfect feelings. Two people must have such a consensus. Second, you must learn to no longer avoid contradictions and conflicts. Because the essence of these conflicts is that two people need to further improve their own signals. Third, you must learn to discuss things about personal growth in a quiet time. I believe that many people in love have such a strange feeling, and sometimes the other half of their own quarrels after the conflict, the feeling of relations will become more intimate.
Finally, all the words and deeds should be to let the relationship, let each other become better. We will inevitably make mistakes in the relationship, sometimes there will be some differences and conflicts, but in any case just remember that you love each other, is to each other to become better, perfect feelings, that is always more well, has been moving toward perfection. We can not really achieve perfection, but infinitely close to the perfect feeling, is the most honest and most fulfilling the most real perfection.
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