When single, the head was anxious and pressure stunned, so we regard the single as a particularly important special great things. in the eyes of many people is the end, in my eyes is the starting point. Marrying means greater responsibility, more challenges, and are you really ready? I sent an emotional solemn last year, and share the encouragement.
I'm a dating coach. My job is to help single sugar baby and men improve emotional intelligence and social skill. I am single. Your own problems are not resolved, but also teach others how to fall in love? The number of times i hear this question is basically the same as the number of friends I know, and each time I have a different way of responding. Sometimes I Would say the surgeon does not need to cut off their hands and feet in order to save the dying, and sometimes I would say no single no chance dating, and will affect the curriculum development and teaching quality. Occasionally I will joke that their problems are not single but too many choices.
For professional habits, I like to listen to all kinds of emotional story. Compared to single men and women struggling to find, I prefer to listen to those breaking up, rupture and divorce story. Not because of schadenfreude, but these stories are more enlightening. People are afraid to make mistakes in their emotions, but from these stories I find that errors are more corrective than any prudence, doubt, and calculation, sweeping away our illusions, making us better aware of ourselves and of the real world. And these sad stories bring the most important lesson is: the choice of feelings can not easily listen to extremal influences, not impetuous fast, but should be extended with the pace of life out of the natural selection.
A happy relationship requires two people to pay well. Unless to do not regard marriage and family as a source of happiness, I think anyone needs to consider whether they have enough ability to love. When you love a person, the source of love is yourself. When you are not complete, you can give the love is limited. Some people expect their partners to solve their own problems, some people do not even know what their problems, so they are extremely critical when choosing a spouse. This is critical of the fact that the growth and maturity of their own responsibility to others. Even if you find a sugar baby or sugar daddy to meet the requirements in the relationship to wait for others to obtain, to meet the neglect of their own problems brought about by the bottomless pit, one day will run out of the feelings of both sides.
So carefully prepared mate selection criteria, check the partner requirements, whether you can also see their own way to where? Standing on their own course of life of a fixed point, you will be able to clearly need what kind of partner. If everything is still vague, you first pay the price on the emotional. I sincerely hope that you do not need to understand the truth through the failure of marriage, in the flicker around when people can keep the marriage objective and objective self-awareness.
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