How to avoid the development of love too fast?

About feelings, I always have such a view: a person is interesting that we can not choose, but to achieve this do not attract so interesting to develop a relationship, but it is entirely dependent on our choices. That feeling is emotional but also rational balance between the two is that when we are unable to extricate themselves addicted to feelings, but also know how to choose the correct posture to indulge.

This article is for those who have not wanted to, will just fall in love, fall in love or have been found but the pit, describes a more rational attitude addicted. Fast-food era of love, you want to save time, get pleasure and deliberately, hurry brewing a big mistake, feelings are not many happy people come to me for help, I have found that the sugar daddy and sugar baby can be traced back entirely unfortunate initial contact stage, two people confused, careless.

On in the end what should be a time to let people into your heart, the question, I think a basic judgment is: The less experience your feelings, you should slow down the decision. The less experience because of their understanding of the more blurred, the more likely influenced by some external factors that are invisible, and afterwords the more likely to regret it. and they want to find out differently.

For somewhat inappropriate analogy, many people have been looking for an apartment to let the agency take your experience, When we see the first set of the second set when the Bose will be very easy to be tempted, because although it may be a little high, position side of the point, but the decoration of room or is our very favorite. But if you continue to look at several houses, you will find in front of you tempted to make choices, but now there is no attractive.

Think of writing this article, but also because of some recent consulting case found the sugar daddy and sugar baby and no more comprehensive understanding of the decision together, decided to fully invest emotionally. And so determine the relationship, and head back to try to resolve those issues before actually ignored. But a harsh reality is that the two differences are largely difficult to overcome or solve,  in particular those areas I mentioned above. If you can easily overcome, then the love will become less special, anyway, We just find a person under overcome differences enough.

So love fast development, the most fundamental problem still did not see each other's essence, it ignores some appointments less frequently touched on the question of the relationship but in fact very influential. With the perspective of those above I mentioned before you want to fall in love, to give yourself a reality check, in the heart with a cool and objective questions to test jump into worthwhile. If more people could do it, My consulting business may be a lot of deserted, but this is what we strive for the ultimate goal of this line.