Last week's workshop we discussed an interesting question, understanding the potential date is a one-on-one environment is better or a group of people is better? Most of the workshop friends have chosen to meet friends to meet sugar daddy or sugar baby, so as to find a date. But this way must be the best? My response is to know the old saying goes easily, not the best, only the most suitable for you. The main goal is to leave a good impression on the other side, resulting in sense of curiosity and love, if immediately attracted to the better.
A group of people together, in fact, a more complex scene, number, gender ratio, the relationship between each other, activities, content, environment, and many other factors need to be considered, In addition to your own position in this group and the scene of the behavior will play a more critical role. Natural selection creates women's preference for the alpha male because male A appears to be more dominant, more powerful, more controllable, and more dependable than beta male. Therefore, when a group of primitive people to open the party, looks vicious, stature strong men may be more likely to have female pro-Lia. In modern society, social power, economic power and social Stu's gradually replaced the original brute force, so when a group of people to play together, can speak aloud, cheerful enthusiasm, tall handsome, in the group occupies a leadership position, looks more economical the strength of the men tend to be more likely to have more interaction. When you choose to go into a group, or want to get someones interest and affection in a group environment, you need to consider whether you can become better in this group. For women, in fact, the same token, social skills, appearance and group reputation is often status of their decision in the group an important indicator of the performance.
Of course, this is not to say quiet introverted person is not good. Two people know each other and love the process, mainly by mutual understanding and recognition to promote. What way best suited to your natural, smooth expression of their own, on the choice of what way. Some people are better at or prefer to express themselves in a group of people, some people are more accustomed to open the time in the solitude. Here I would like to make the point is that the date and object will always have a variety of different dates, to become a good date , you find a different scenario you are best at the method.
A digression here is that in my opinion a person's character and his/her behavior do not necessarily have to be linked, an introvert can be in a social situation like a duck, an outgoing person, may not always be very decent to along with others, within the extroversion, there is no inevitable merits of the points, the only key is that you have to know how to get along, to master the relevant skills and methods. Personally, I am emotionally inwardly relative to the person I know in depth, but in social situations I have learned to blend in with the cold side of the observation and the outward side of the burst out of enthusiasm, so to more decent hold live in different scenes.
The final point is , whether it is social or solitary, in fact, a variety of signal transmission and reception. Especially when the gregarious, many people will send a lot of signals to capture the people will have the opportunity to talk up. numb people will always feel how we are not interested in their own, You can not be so passive to expect sugar baby flew into your arms, you need to explore, give others the opportunity to further express. As for how to capture the signal, let's talk about the next time!
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